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Why You Should Have a Coach or Mentor and How to Find One

July 7th, 2007 · 3 Comments ·

There are thousands, if not millions, of people on the internet trying to make their dreams come true. Quite often, the difference between the people that succeed and the people that don’t succeed is a coach or a mentor.

Why do you need a coach (or mentor – used interchangeably)? That’s a fair question and there are many important reasons to have one. A coach has usually been through what you are going through and can see things that you can’t see. A mentor understands what you are experiencing right now and knows what you will experience if you continue to do what you are doing.

He or she can also recommend great products and services for you to use because they have tried most of them and know which ones are quality products and services and which ones aren’t. A mentor guides you through obstacles in your path and helps you to quickly and easily move closer and closer to your goal. A coach provides a support system that advises, steers, and cheers you on to success.

How do you find a coach or mentor? To find a mentor, you need to go where they are, whether it’s a live conference, an internet forum, their personal web site, or, if you’re on their mailing list, replying to an email they sent you. If you don’t have a particular person in mind and are just searching for someone that is knowledgeable about your niche, then you should go to forums where the kind of person that you want to mentor you will be.

Go to where the experts of your niche are and ask questions to people there to see if anyone is offering any mentoring programs. If you have any contacts or friends in your niche, ask them if they know of anyone that can be a mentor to you. Ask if they have been helped by anyone and if that person is available to help you as well.

Most mentors will have a set of guidelines that you must meet in order for them to mentor you. And they charge for their services. “Why”, you ask? This is an investment in your business, in your future, and showing that you are serious about going to the next level in your business and your life, and that you value their time as well as yours, is a key component to a successful coaching relationship. If you aren’t able to pay a mentor, some will allow you to use your skills in exchange for their help, but if they do, be ready to work and to work hard.

Entering into a mentoring relationship is a great decision for your career, regardless of what field it may be. You may actually find that you end up with several mentors and this may be necessary as you learn and grow. Just remember to be a good listener and to prove that you are serious about your decision to be a mentee. It’ll be the best decision for your future that you have ever made.

Justin Michie is an Internet Marketing specialist, small business coach and author of the best selling Internet Marketing Book, Street Smart Internet Marketing . If you’re interested in learning more about marketing on the internet and/or making money online, you can pick up a copy of his brand new book from Amazon.com or signup for his coaching program here.

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Tags: Coaching · Mentoring

3 responses so far ↓

  • Aurelius Tjin // Oct 15, 2007 at 12:37 am

    A business coach can really be of good help to small business owners, they give us a better perspective on how to look at things. :-)

  • Lilly Holmers // Dec 17, 2007 at 5:03 am

    Coaches and mentors can be a very valuable when you are new to something and feel a little lost. But it is also important that there is a personal connection, a sort of chemistry, between the mentor and mentee. I have a personal trainer that I contact through a reputable online agency, ondisplaytrainers.com, whom I chose because his face radiated warmth and I just had a gut-feeling we’d work well together. I’ve since been able to create my a regular exercise routine,feel much happier, and truly enjoy working with my trainer in each session. I’ve had other personal trainers before that I didn’t get along with as much as this trainer and the results were consequently not this good.

  • eOneNet // Jan 4, 2008 at 1:55 am

    Well coaches and mentors will help you alots as they are much more experience and will share what you can DOs and DONTs… :)

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